08-29-2013, 07:29 PM
Can I just pause the topic of this thread? (sorry DesignHeaven, I'll still disposal all this, or make a seperated thread, seeing how much attention this gets)
Basically, my observation of all this flame and drama is that we have two completely different sides that really can't come together. One, who is a very bad example of his words (EXG9 - asks not to nitpick, though does it freely himself), and the other side - Gad, prince_freeza - guys, who are just eager to make fun of EXG9. That makes EXG9 furious very fast and the flame war commences.
There is really not much that can be done to circumvent the event, because both sides cannot change themselves - it's their normal behaviour and naturally it doesn't appeal to everyone. Yes, EXG9 can be a dick sometimes, but he offers his honest (even though not always constructive or whatnot) advice, like it or not; but at the same time, you shouldn't respond to him by being a dick yourself. That's in my opinion the weaker solution. Really, I shouldn't be the one trying to be like your parents, lol, so I will just say (and that's for both sides): there're more important things for your energy to be spent on, because no matter what or how you say something to your "nemesis" he just won't listen - he has his own beliefs, and changing them is just not worth the time.
tl;dr: why are you making your mood worse due to the fact that everyone is completely different?
Basically, my observation of all this flame and drama is that we have two completely different sides that really can't come together. One, who is a very bad example of his words (EXG9 - asks not to nitpick, though does it freely himself), and the other side - Gad, prince_freeza - guys, who are just eager to make fun of EXG9. That makes EXG9 furious very fast and the flame war commences.
There is really not much that can be done to circumvent the event, because both sides cannot change themselves - it's their normal behaviour and naturally it doesn't appeal to everyone. Yes, EXG9 can be a dick sometimes, but he offers his honest (even though not always constructive or whatnot) advice, like it or not; but at the same time, you shouldn't respond to him by being a dick yourself. That's in my opinion the weaker solution. Really, I shouldn't be the one trying to be like your parents, lol, so I will just say (and that's for both sides): there're more important things for your energy to be spent on, because no matter what or how you say something to your "nemesis" he just won't listen - he has his own beliefs, and changing them is just not worth the time.
tl;dr: why are you making your mood worse due to the fact that everyone is completely different?

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